1. Dress up well
We as humans have a natural tendency to notice people dressed up exceptionally well. The first thing you need to do to build up self confidence and get noticed wherever you go is to dress up well. It does not mean to put on fancy jackets and leather boots even when you move out for grocery shopping, but a dress-up with a touch of style and etiquette. When you know you’re looking fabulous, the self confidence will trigger on its own and you will feel good about yourself. Of course people who are dressed up well get noticed, without any extra efforts.
2. A Firm Body Language will change your social image
Whether you are sitting with friends in a cafe or attending a conference, ensure a firm body language. Start to keep an eye on your body postures including how you walk. A loose walk or sitting with a bent posture conveys a lot to people around you about your weak personality. If your body language is firm, people will notice you and when people notice you, you know there is something that is causing this attraction. This will boost self confidence in you and your personality. A person with a great body language is admired by others, not for the firm body language but for a strong and a commanding personality, a strong message sent out by your firm body language.
3. Recall all of your achievements when in doubt
If you are feeling hopeless and nothing is working out in the present, be it your business goals or personal relationships, immediately create a list of all your achievements until today. Pen down every good thing that you’ve done and for what people have admired you. When you create this list, stick it around your living area or in your bathroom or at your work desk and when feeling low on self confidence, quickly recall all of your achievements. This will help you realize that you have achieved some great things in life and that you are capable of achieving more. It will give you an instant doze of self confidence.
4. Motivate the world
When you socialize, there is no harm in mentioning about your achievements in life. But when you do this, make sure you also tell people what helped you to solve the problems and win the situation. You can talk about the techniques and strategies you adopted to move out of crisis. This way you are indirectly motivating people that every problem is no big deal and there is always room for a workable solution. When you motivate people and inspire them to achieve goals in life, you leave a strong impression in their minds and they tend to share their problems with you and seek for appropriate solutions. Now this entire process will boost your Self Confidence to an all-new level and make you feel happy about yourself.
5. Flirt when you Socialize
The easiest trick to get noticed begins with flirting. People who flirt are mostly Self Confident that gives them a reason to flirt. If you aren’t too confident about yourself, begin this process in the reverse order. You first flirt and then gain Self Confidence. Make sure you learn all the healthy tactics to flirt and don’t end up hurting someone emotionally. This is very important.
6. Learn at least One New Thing Everyday
Learning and knowledge never ends. A person who is always exploring and learning new things in life ends up gaining terrific Self Confidence. When you learn something new every day, your knowledge expands and outlook on life gets a new dimension. Nothing else will boost your Self Confidence that knowledge and education will. A highly well educated person with a vast experience will definitely be more Self Confident than an average person. Use knowledge as a tool to gain Self Confidence because it will not only just help you be noticed wherever you go, but make you a better person, every day.
7. Do at least One Good Deed Everyday
Self Confidence automatically starts to pour in when you know you’re a good person with a pure heart and no bad intentions. But it will further get a boost when you start to perform good deeds in real. This can include feeding poor with a meal or the stray dogs with a bowl of milk or helping someone to cross the road. There is no way you can measure the good deeds. All you have to do is help people around, in whatever possible way you can. You have no idea how satisfied and Self Confident you will feel within after doing at least one good deed, everyday.
8. Remind Yourself of your Goals Everyday
You need to constantly remind yourself of your goals in life. Keep an eye and measure the progress every day. Self Confidence starts to build on it’s own when you are clear in your head about your goals and how you plan to achieve them. A person with absolutely no goals in life can never be confident about himself, because there is nothing to feel confident about, except the usual social drama. Of course you don’t want to be that person. Develop a strong goal, keep a watch on it, check status every day and plan how better can you perform to achieve it. When you get into this practice every day, a new Self Confidence will take birth in you that will totally help you to be a better entrepreneur and a better person and these are the people who get noticed, everywhere.
9. Work Out minimum three times a week
Start to work out immediately if you don’t. Working out releases stress from the body making every part of it active and healthy including the brain. When there is no physical activity, our brain starts to feel lazy and you know a man with a lazy brain cannot be confident about himself or whatever he does, ever.
10. Read one quote on success every day
Develop a habit to read at least one quote on success every day. This will develop new thoughts in your mind and will get wings to your ideas to achieve something great in life. It will boost your Self Confidence with an insane positive energy. You can either read one quote on the internet or make a list of few of them and pin it to your work desk or any space in the house where you hang out often. Read these log on to BRAINYQUOTE for this exercise.
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